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December 05, 2017

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Inspiring Power Quotes For This Week:

"I would rather attempt something great and fail than attempt to do nothing and succeed."
- Robert Schuller

"What you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it."
- Goethe

"Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves."
- Walter Anderson

"Either do not attempt at all, or go through with it."
- Ovid

"I don't dream at night, I dream all day. I dream for a living."
- Steven Spielberg

"Hope is the companion of power and the mother of success. For those of us who hope strongest have within us the gift of miracles."
- Sydney Bremer

"The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials."
- Confucius

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Charisma. We all are attracted by it in others. We all want to become charismatic ourselves.

And there is no reason you too cannot incorporate some of the characteristics and skills applied by those magnetic people.

There are so many essential life skills that you need to develop mastery in if you want to get ahead in life, like time management, stress management, goal setting, all those leadership skills you need to read about ... and I think this is one of them.

O.K. Lets begin with this weeks Power Tips report for you... ENJOY!

"Enhance Your Charisma, Enhance Your Life"

Have you ever longed to be the life of the party? Wouldn’t it be nice to navigate business and social situations comfortably, easily, and skillfully? Charisma provides many perks.

Few things can enhance multiple facets of your life. Charisma is one of them.

Those with charisma have the power to influence the world and enjoy a greater range of opportunities.

Do you have to be born with the charisma of Bill Clinton or Oprah Winfrey, or can it be acquired? Charisma is a controversial topic.

Many believe you’re either born with this advantage or not. On the other hand, many social scientists claim it’s a relatively easy skill to master if you know the secrets.

Regardless of your current level of charisma, though, it’s possible to take it to the next level. With practice, you can become very charismatic!

There are four components to charisma:

1. You must be present.

You can’t be charismatic if you’re not fully present in the situation. That means daydreaming when you’re around others isn’t appropriate. It’s important to be completely engaged with your environment.

• When you’re having a conversation, the other person should believe you’re 100% focused on them.

• A big part of charisma is making other people feel important and good about themselves.

• Consider those instances when you’ve had a conversation with someone that seemed distracted. How did it make you feel? You most likely felt like you weren’t as important as whatever else they wanted to do. As a result, you probably felt negatively toward them.

2. Be kind.

You can’t make people feel badly about themselves and be charismatic. It just doesn’t work. Keep your comments positive and polite.

• Avoid gossiping. Gossip can be fun and entertaining. However, most gossip is of a negative nature. If you participate in gossip, the other person intuitively knows that you’ll eventually gossip about them, too.

• Be empathetic and approachable so others feel comfortable and at ease in your presence. Being comfortable is a basic human drive. It’s a state that lacks stress. It’s similar to your mom bringing you a bowl of soup when you’re sick. Strive to create that same feeling in others.

• Being kind is challenging to fake. It’s relatively easy to fake being present by keeping your eyes glued to the other person while they speak and asking a few relevant questions. The key to being kind is to do it without expecting something in return. Consider how much you dislike the salesperson that lays it on thick to seal the deal.

• Be gracious. Take moment each day to list the things that make you grateful. That same feeling can last all day.

• Be curious about others. It’s much harder to judge a person when you know him well. Seek to understand everyone you meet.

• Always think of yourself as the host. Whether you’re talking over the fence in your backyard or sharing the copier at work, pretend you’re the host and the other person is the guest. When you’re the host, you try to make everyone as comfortable as possible.

• Give compliments. A sincere compliment is always pleasant to receive. It sets the tone for the conversation.

• Smile. It’s tough to be thought of as kind if you have an angry look on your face. Smile, just like your mom always told you to do.

• Have open body language. Avoid crossing your arms and legs. Keep your hands visible. Avoid having any barriers between you and the other person.

• Be reliable. If you want to be trusted, give others a reason to trust you. Be on time and do what you say you’re going to do. It’s that simple.

3. Be confident.

Those with charisma ooze confidence. It would be impossible for someone that appeared nervous and uncomfortable to be charismatic. Those that are uncomfortable tend to make others uncomfortable. When you act confidently, others are more comfortable around you.

• Keep your mind focused on solutions rather than problems. You’ll feel better, complain less, and accomplish more. It also keeps your thoughts more positive.

• Keep your self-talk positive. What’s going on between your ears will eventually be demonstrated to the world, no matter how hard you try to hide it. When you catch yourself thinking negatively, turn it around. Say something positive to yourself that counteracts the negative thought.

• Be prepared. A little preparation can help to put your mind at ease. Heading to an office Christmas party? Have a few conversation topics ready to go. Learn a few new jokes. No matter what you have planned, take a few minutes to prepare. You’ll feel more confident and perform better.

• Know your values and stick to them. Confident people are consistent because they don’t feel the need to change with the situation. When people see that you live by a code, they’ll know that you’re confident.

Set small goals and achieve them. A little success is the best cure for a lack of confidence.

• Add one success habit to your daily routine. Again, keep it small. It might be going for a morning walk or making a to-do list each night. Be sure you can be successful. Replace another habit after a month.

• Speak up for yourself. Is there someone in your life that treats you poorly? Let them know that it’s no longer acceptable and you expect to be treated better going forward. Notice how much more confident you feel afterwards.

• Do things that frighten you. That doesn’t mean you need to hang over the side of a cliff by your fingertips. There are several things you know you should do, but haven’t. Do one of those things today.

Visualize yourself in a challenging situation and acting in a confident manner. With enough repetition, you can change the way you perform in that situation.

• Be a finisher. Many of us quit with only 5% of the work remaining. This is a confidence destroyer. Learn how to persevere and continue forward until the job is done.

4. Be powerful.

How can you be powerful if you’re not a CEO or a celebrity? What is power? Let’s consider power to be the perceived ability to influence the world around you.

It could be due to fame and fortune, experience and expertise, holding political office, or high social status. Others can perceive you have this ability through your words and actions.

• Be perceived as intelligent. Most people that can effectively alter their environment are intelligent. Learn as much as you can. Be up to date on current affairs. Be knowledgeable on a wide range of subjects.

• Show poise. People that lack power over their environment become rattled easily. Only nod occasionally and avoid fidgeting. Keep your hands and feet still.

• Get in shape. It’s important to be able to control yourself. You don’t need to look like a bodybuilder or swimsuit model, but someone with self-control will eat well and get regular exercise.

• Take up more space. Whether you’re sitting or standing, take up as much space as possible without looking silly. Don’t be afraid to stand like Superman with your hand on your waist and elbows out to the side. Spread your legs slightly.

• Dress well. We make a lot assumptions based on the dress of others. Powerful people dress well. Strive to be slightly overdressed. You won’t just be perceived as more powerful, but you’ll feel more powerful, too. Clean, well-fitting clothes are more important than you think.

• Speak slowly. Pause for two full seconds before responding to someone. The less you speak, the more your words mean. Avoid being the first one to speak when there’s an awkward silence.

• Make reasonable requests of others without embarrassment. Would James Bond bashfully ask for a favor? Be assertive and create an environment that you enjoy.

That’s all it takes. Learn to be present, kind, confident, and powerful. That’s It might sound like a tall order, but each of these characteristics can be demonstrated to others with simple behaviors. It just requires a plan

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"Enhance Your Charisma, Enhance Your Life" Report continued...

A Daily Plan for Increasing Charisma

It’s not enough to understand the components of charisma. Try describing how to swim to someone that doesn’t know how, and then throw them in the pool. See what happens.

Knowledge is just the first step. Implementing this knowledge is what actually makes a difference.

Changing behavior is challenging. The key is to start small and apply effort on a daily basis. Your current ways of viewing and interacting with the world are habits. It will take time to create new habits.

Build your level of charisma one habit at a time:

1. Assess your current behavior.

Compare and contrast your behavior with what you now know. Where can you make a big impact easily? Do you stare at the ground while talking to others? Do you work in an office setting but dress like a garbage man?

• Find a few high-leverage points and address them.

2. Choose one new behavior for each of the four components.

Limit yourself to just four new habits in total. For example:

• Presence: I will look others in the eye during conversations.
• Kindness: I will give three sincere compliments each day.
• Confidence: I will exercise for 15 minutes each day for a month.
• Power: I will dress like my boss.

3. Look for potential obstacles.

Do you have appropriate clothes to wear? Does maintaining eye contact make you uncomfortable? What type of exercise will you do?

• Think ahead and plan for any known issues. A little preparation can mean the difference between success and failure.

4. Visualize success.

Take a few minutes each morning and night to visualize yourself performing the new behaviors successfully. A few repetitions, twice a day, will pay off in a big way.

• It might be most convenient to perform this exercise in bed before starting and ending your day.

5. Do it.

There’s no time like the present. Jump in and give your best effort. Avoid expecting perfection. Seek consistent improvement instead.

6. Evaluate.

Progress will come much quicker if you evaluate your progress regularly. Let yourself know what you’re doing right and wrong.

• What could you have done better?
• Are you noticing any difference in the way people react to you?
• Do you feel more confident and charismatic?
• How can you apply what you’ve learned to tomorrow’s effort?

7. Continue until your new behaviors have become habits.

When you naturally perform your new behaviors without any thought, congratulate yourself on a job well done. You’ve come a long way!

8. Add new goals.

There’s still more work to do. You’ll probably have to add at least 2-3 habits in each area before you notice a big difference. Repeat the process with four fresh goals. Limit yourself to four.

9. You can stop when you feel your charisma is sufficient.

How charismatic do you want to be? It’s up to you. Keep going until you’re completely satisfied.

Create new habits that support your charisma. You might have to spend part of your time eliminating a few habits that hold you back. Work on your new habits each day and try to enjoy the process. Be consistent.

Your habits determine your future.

A few final tips:

1. Find a role model.

It could be someone you know, a historical character, or a fictional character. The frequently mentioned examples for charisma are James Bond and Cary Grant. Watch some movies and notice how they move, speak, and behave.

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• Bill Clinton and Steve Jobs are also good examples of charismatic leaders.

Maybe you like the way Gandhi handled himself.

• Maybe your Uncle Bob is the most charismatic person you know. Find someone you can study and emulate while still being your own, unique person.

2. Be patient.

Rome wasn’t built in a day. Building your charisma will take time. However, you can become very charismatic regardless of your starting point. Focus on small, consistent improvements.

3. Become a master at handling uncomfortable situations.

It doesn’t matter whether your meeting room is too hot, or you’re late for a date. Explain the situation, offer a solution, and apologize if appropriate. Avoid being emotional. Be solution oriented.

4. Remember to go slowly.

Be under control and purposeful. Those with power and charisma speak slowly, gesture slowly, and rarely need to rush for any reason. Avoid aimless talking and wandering. Have a purpose at all times.

5. Consider working on your public speaking skills.

If you can become comfortable while speaking to a crowd, less stressful situations can become easier, too.

• Toastmasters International is a highly respected and inexpensive organization that can help.


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Editor’s Note by Helene Malmsio

So are you getting into the Christmas spirit yet? Got your decorations up ... planning your festivities?

I'm not doing much festive celebrating this year, keeping it nice and quiet for my dad and I, maybe go out to dinner this week as a treat, and we have a concert to attend at the State Theater for Handel's Messiah but that's about that.

And the past few weeks its been just too darned HOT to do much of anything at the moment, you melt as soon as you stick your head out the door. Thank goodness for air-conditioning!

And then just for a bit of a change this week the weather decided to bring 10/10 storm warnings statewide around Victoria, including the CBD, so we had to batten down the hatches for a few day of torrential rain. My new canvas awnings survived, but I didn't enjoy getting soaked every time I had to go out and fix something breaking in it!

This time of year I'm winding down and chilling out. Hope you also get to relax and unwind over the next few weeks - apart from the annual family etc dramas of this time of year.

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