How To Save A Relationship When The Passion Dies
Do you need to learn how to save a relationship? Once you were so in love, and totally wrapped up in each other every minute of the day.
But now you barely even talk, and then its only about day to day responsibilities.
What happened to the fire and passion? What happened to needing to be with each other or you started pining away...?
As time goes by, the flames of a relationship may tamper down.
If both of parties do not know how to save a relationship, what was once thriving it will become mere embers.
If you are in a relationship – be it a boyfriend and girlfriend type or a marriage - you need to learn how to save a relationship before it becomes irretrievably lost.
You can have a lot of fun rekindling your relationship! Don't do anything that makes it feel like a chore, like you 'have to' do all these things that don't feel natural of fun for you.
When you start to consider what it was that made it fun and romantic to be together at the start, you just need to start making those activities part of your 'habits' again, so that you naturally and instinctively want to do these thoughtful and loving things for and with each other!
First of all, you need to rediscover each other. What were the little things that made your heart beat faster when you first met?
After a long time together, everything in your relationship becomes a routine.
You feel you “have” to do this and that.
When you get used to each other, you fail to realize that there are still a number of areas in your lives that you have not truly explored.
This is especially true for married couples.
The demands of life including the bills that must be paid and even the burden of raising your children may become walls that keep you from enjoying your spouse's company.
If you want to know how to save a relationship, you need to figure out if you have fallen into a routine.
Often when the routine becomes too boring, one of the members of the couple tries to recapture their old romantic feelings by starting an affair.
If you are thinking about doing this, take a time out.
Ask yourself whether potentially losing your relationship is worth experiencing the feeling of being “in love” again.
Think about ways that you can redevelop that feeling with your current husband or wife rather than looking outside the marital bonds.
Some suggestions for rekindling the flames are to:
· Have dates at the old places where you used to go
· Get dressed up and go to a romantic restaurant
· Walk along the beach at sunset
· Have a picnic at the park.
· Stay in bed for a romantic weekend sleep-in.
· Make the effort to gaze lovingly into your partner's eyes, hold their hand, give them a cuddle.
If none of these suggestions work, there is another thing you can do to save your relationship.
You should start to have “adventures” with each other. Step outside of your relative comfort zones.
When you start doing things you’ve never done before together, the bond between you becomes stronger.
You start to lean on each other for support through the adventure and thus you begin to lean on each other in all aspects of life.
You begin to see each other in a new light.
You’ll probably find that you’ve missed the other person more as a result as well.
If the relationship is worth preserving, you need to be creative about the experiences you share.
Turn an ordinary night of watching television into an extraordinary one by breaking out the Champagne.
Don't start to second guess yourself, or suddenly become shy about this.
Be spontaneous... and get into the habit of doing sweet little things that make you feel more in love, and will bring a little bit of joy into your partner's day when they see it.
Write sexy messages on the bathroom mirror in lipstick.
Write a love letter and place it in a bottle.
Compliment your partner, especially in front of others.
Make the ordinary extraordinary and you will spice up the relationship again.
In this way you will learn how to save a relationship.
It is so much easier to have a healthy, happy and respectful relationship with your partner when you learn how to improve relationship communications on all levels.
The link above will take you to the section with helpful step-by-step guide for how to do it.
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